I keep trying to find people who share my love of astrology and the Enneagram. The people in my life represented by the third house, ruled by Saturn, are squaring my Acendant Lord in the 8th house, and their judgemental reaction to my spirituality reminds me to keep it in the 8th house. They are polite about it, but it hurts when they don’t understand my love for it. If you have any other planets in the 8th house, they will be able to join you there. Thankfully my 5th house lord is in the 8th, and I can always talk about spirituality with my romantic partners. Taking spirituality out of the 8th house may open you up to criticism or loss of trust. There is a reason why the best spirituality is inaccessible- I’m thinking of Gurdjieff finding the Sarmoung monastery in Afghanistan. It took him and his group years of trekking through deserts and waterways to get to Egypt, then eventually to Afghanistan. Some of his travelling companions gave up or died looking for sacred teachings. Nobody was driving by waving it at passers-by out of their window. When Gurdjieff met Thomas de Hartmann for the first time, for example, he met him in a 2nd floor cafe where prostitutes hung out, making de Hartmann uncomfortable – had anyone known he was there, he could have lost his position on the regiment. It can be lonely in the 8th house, but if you work hard for the practice, the integration is more rewarding than the loneliness (and hopefully can replace it with others on the path).