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2024: The Year of the Type Six

Between getting hit on the side of the head that my dad might be a Six this year, realizing some people I love are Sixes, seeing more clearly the Six-ness behind the conspiracy theorizing that’s dismantling western democracy, seeing the case for Luigi Mangione being a Six, and finally facing my Jordan Peterson fears, 2024 […]

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All I Want for Christmas is to not be Emotionally Manipulated by my Conservative Family Members

My conservative uncle called me this week wanting to say hi and let me know he cares about me. I let it go to voice mail because I wasn’t sure how I was going to respond; I unfriended him during the pandemic after his posts where causing me so much stress that it took hours

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“Become Yourself, then God and the Devil don’t Matter”

I’m in a discussion with someone about the virtues, and he initially linked them to Christianity, which got me cringing because of course they go back beyond Christianity to Socrates and Pythagoras, and (because I’ve studied the Enneagram), I’d say they go back in their hellenstic form to the Egyptians. In his defence, he knows

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Conspiracy Theories: the Church of the Failed Baby Boomer

I’ve been having a hard time slogging through the trauma of the American election, with the attendant social media hazards that come along with politics. I couldn’t sleep tonight, so I wrote this fictional post to baby boomers who supported the male candidate: Baby boomers, has the church let you down? Do you see through

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Skeptical Type Sixes are the Quicksand Under this Election

I’ve been trying to write about Enneagram Type Sixes who are behind the conspiracy theories undermining this presidential race and tainting it with cynicism and chronic skepticism, but Type Six is by far the toughest type to understand. If you have a Type Six friend or family member who is into these conspiracy theories, you

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Fighting with People from Another Intelligence Centre

On the topic of politics from yesterday, here’s another way the right-left divide is exacertabed unnecessarily: the political gap is as much about us feeling unheard and invalidated in our respective intelligence centre as it is about different values. I used to fight with my dad- he is a head type (5/6) and I’m a

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